Written by Mark…
Who would have known?
A simple message sent on Instagram in January 2021, during COVID lockdown, would lead to you all reading this message right now.
I wasn’t too sure what was going to happen when I sent the message. But I’m so happy with what followed.
Over the next few weeks we had a few 4+ hour virtual dates where the time just seemed to disappear with each other.
I knew I wanted to meet Duda in person, but she was a bit cautious (of the lockdown restrictions, not of me…I think).
But, I convinced her with the classic “por que no?” attitude and invited her to join me and some friends for a semi-illegal (due to lockdown rules) game night at my apartment.
I still remember the feeling I got when she walked into the room. It was as if she filled up the space with her energy, smile and laugh.
At this moment, I knew that my life had changed forever.
And as they say…the rest is history.
Over the last two years we’ve moved in together and built a home, we’ve adopted a cat that seems to love Duda more than me, hosted many dinner parties and drinks, travelled the world together and dealt with whatever life has thrown at us (including an attempted kidnap of me by Mexican police).
There’s been 1000x times more ups than downs in our relationship, and the few downs that we’ve experienced have been handled with maturity and solid communication.
I made the decision to propose to my best friend, because I knew I had found a partner that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.
I know, with all my heart, that I happened to slide into the DM’s of an incredible woman who comes from a brilliant, loving family and who is going to be the best mother to our children.
A strong woman who I know is by my side, as I will be by hers, for whatever life throws at us.
She is my best friend, my love, the person I would do anything for.
She is my Duda x
Duda, I love you very much and I can’t wait to celebrate our relationship and marriage with as many of our family and friends as possible.
See you at (one/some/all) of the wedding(s).
Mark